Just scant days ago, at a nearby parish, at Communion time, I was told--with the Eucharistic Lord held from me--that I did not need to kneel before Him, "just do a bow of the head."
I am well aware that the norm is standing, yet this does not make kneeling an obsolete or bad option. After the "explanation," I was given our Lord (since my genuflection couldn't be undone, but what if I had been on my knees as I used to receive. Would He have been denied me until I got up...).
I am valuing Him much more after this.
Our whole body is called to worship Him, now and into eternity. Personally, I need practice and
a genuflection is a good reminder of "bending the knee before the Lord our Maker, for He is our God and we are His people, the flock that He shepherds." I have too much pride and this has helped enormously to turn to Him, to stop and think of His sacrifice for a moment with a small one of my own. Our bodies are called to help us live out our faith and strengthen it. (Or, as we sadly know, they also help us live out our lack of faith.)
In a beautiful rendition of Fra Angelico's painting of the Magi, I see how those who came to adore the Christ Child did not just bend their head to acknowlege Him. There is kneeling down AND bowing the head. Some people reverence Our Lord so consciously that one is left in amazement...
This incident has made me reflect on how we treat Him...
At my parish church (not where I was reprimanded), on May 28th, after a Mass offered for a niece's 11th birthday, I took e-photos of the Stations of the Cross. (I'll use them to quiz my children on the Stations.) The Stations are in full relief; they pop-out at you.
In getting so close to them, I noticed that twice someone was raising the hand high to strike Jesus... I pray that we respond to Him who fell on His knees for us, by making reparations for offenses against Him, using our knees in bending to Him.
Why kneel? Haven't you heard all the arguments? You know, about not showing off, having uniformity, not slowing down the line or causing people to trip--how bowing is just as good as kneeling.
What will glorify God? That is the issue, not what is the minimum, the standard, what everyone does. Yes, we all should sit and kneel and stand together during the Mass where it says so in the missalette. In receiving the Son of God, there is no "you cannot kneel" in the book.
So, go ahead and reverence Him! This is about giving Him all that you are. This isn't a comfortable bread line with us all milling up there casually. This is a crucifixion where we accept to follow Christ all the way. He is equiping us to be courageous!
Children are edified by kneeling. Young children often don't "see" in abstract ways. Tell a child "Jesus is really there" and accompany it with true awe and reverence. Or just go out of habit, without a recent confession, and without thinking about opening up to Him more than you did yesterday. Children learn by example and body language. Show that He is the summit of your life :-) We are our children's teachers.
Kneeling and genuflecting are privileges. Are they being taken away?
Even priests can be edified by seeing kneeling. When I was at Cherry Creek Park in Denver for the World Youth Day Papal Mass on August 15, 1993, I knelt (as was my custom). The priest mentioned "Not many people kneel anymore. It is a good thing."
Let us worship the Lord our God!
Rejoice that He is with us until the end of time!
And we are with Him now... may it we rejoice in that this Feast of Corpus Christi!
Value Him much more after this :-)
Sunday, May 29, 2005
Saturday, May 28, 2005
Christ struck
Thursday, May 26, 2005
The Bread Tester!
Tuesday, May 24, 2005
Merry-go-round Abuelito
Sunday, May 08, 2005
Fr. Michael, Veronica, Beca
Wednesday, April 20, 2005
The two brothers

We did quite a lot of waiting for Easter--and Spring, which is the embodiment of Easter, new life-- this year. I'd already heard how my parents in El Paso, TX were all sunny and warm while we wore sweaters and jackets still.
Finally, we rejoice in warmer weather. Here is a photo by the tree outside our parish church. In our transition from seasons, we noticed how that tree went from bare branches to little buds of green, to white blossoms, to a shower of white petals upon the ground and bright Spring green leaves on the branches!
Gregory went almost all winter with shorts (in was a mild winter), but here David Joseph is sporting shorts for the first time this year.
Here you can see the physical resemblances and differences of the two brothers! As a mother, I'm enjoying also getting to know their inner similarities and differences. :-) Motherhood--connecting with my "nuclear" family--has led me, as well, to want to connect with you.
Branches are in such plentiful green array now that I write to not forget what a marvel happened as Spring came... bit by bit, a coming alive because of Him!
Tuesday, April 05, 2005
With cornfield in background
Saturday, April 02, 2005
Abuelita Mama with my three children
Wednesday, March 30, 2005
Lisa's baby Thomas
Sunday, March 27, 2005
Easter joy!

I went to the Easter Vigil last night on my own since it began after the children's bedtime (thank you, Steven, for this gift!) What a different feel in the morning--yet bolstered by all the joy of new life and new Catholics who had entered the Church! I had been there to see it. A very joyful Easter indeed.
The Easter Tridiuum has become much more important year after year. Many thanks to my father for taking us to the Masses. And to my husband, who helped dozens of people enter the Church and was there on Easter Vigil.
Friday, March 25, 2005
Sing Choirs of Angels!

This was David Joseph's first Christmas and he was about six months old. About three months later, he was standing and moving with trembly steps. I was eight months pregnant with Katherine during the Christmas of 1999 and it was so memorable and amazing, to think of Our Lady also getting ready to give birth... or to think of the Conception Day! Come, let us adore Him!
Sunday, February 20, 2005
Magnetism
Wednesday, January 26, 2005
Art Center for Katherine's 5th birthday!
Monday, January 17, 2005
Saturday, January 01, 2005
Black and White of David and Rosie wedding Mass
David and his bride, Rosie!
Thursday, December 02, 2004
Three in a Toy Box!
Sunday, September 26, 2004
Bananas in the Mix?
Saturday, September 25, 2004
The Shapes of the States
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